it was about 830 in the morning when i got to school.. i was late but i couldnt rush in because its raining and the floor is slippery. i was about to cross the street when i fell on my humps..picture this, i was in white pants, because that’s the only short pants i have, i was holding a green umbrella. then i was sitting on the wet floor in the middle of the street with lots of people crossing the same pedestrian lane.. it was embarassing…
Only 3 Words!!!
There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words. When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, deepen old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have soured.
The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship.
1. Let me help
Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.
2. I understand you
People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know - in so many little ways - that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. And this can apply to any relationship.
3. I respect you
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become closer friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.
4. I miss you
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how important you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."
5. Maybe you’re right
This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument. The implication when you say "maybe you’re right" is the humility of admitting, "maybe I’m wrong". Let’s face it. When you have an argument with someone, all you normally do is solidify the other person’s point of view. They, or you, will not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you’re right" can open the door to explore the subject more. You may then have the opportunity to express your view in a way that is understandable to the other person.
6. Please forgive me
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
7. I thank you
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.
8. Count on me
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship. It is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."
9. I’ll be there
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I’ll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.
10. Go for it
We are all unique individuals. Don’t try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far out they seem to you. God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."
BONUS
11. I love you
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person’s deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words: "I love you." Love is a choice. You can love even when the feeling is gone.
hmm. well, hate is a strong word i know but its what i feel about it..
here’s my list..
1. hackers!! (the hell with them!!)
2. crawling creatures (eeeeewwwww!!!)
3. plastics (i dont know why they exist, the world doesnt need them..)
4. floods (they make my pants wet, and they carry deceases)
5. hardcore songs, the heavy metals, the screaming type of music (my god, its not music, its noise!!)
6. jerks
7. crowded places (they make you dizzy and its scary)
8. ghosts (gladly i havent seen one)
9. social climbers (hello?!? get a life)
10. smoke belchers
hehe:) that’s about it.. i guess..
nasan na ba tyo?..
nasan na ba ung mga tawanan..
ung mga magdamang kwentuhan..
ang mga matagal na antayan pag may lakd..
nasan na ba kyo?
nasan na nga ba lahat??.
pwede bang bumalik na kyo??…
the hell with hackers, those guys who were so knowledgeable in computers but dont know when to use their knowledge.,. and what shocking is that, they are doing business out of messing other’s business.. i.e. friendster.. you see, i have my friendster account, the one that ive been working on since 2004.. pretty long huh?!>. eniweis, it was tuesday afternoon at home when i last checked my friendster, i added up new photos and new slide shows, so, my viewer would be entertain with my page, eniweis, the next day, i tried to open it again, but to my surprise, i couldn’t log in.. i checked other’s account and it did open,.. i didnt know what happen until i checked it using other’s account,.. I was shocked to see this message..
"hackster.. if you want your account back email us or txt us, you have 24 hours to do so.."..
what the heck were they doing with my account.. and then afterwards, i checked my email, and there goes an email from them and it reads like this…
*of course you couldn’t log in… try to see your account from your friend’s friendster or try searching for your name in the user serach and click on your profile.. If you are interested to have your friendster back just read on… if not fuck off!!! first, we don’t just hack accounts.. it just so happened that one person ask for our service to hack your account for whatever reason that the person has. we just wanna let you know that, the person who asked us to hack your account paid us 1000bucks just to hack your account. what to do to have your friendster back: OPTION #1 1. send us a gcash worth 500 (still negotiable) in our gcash account: 0906 490 7900 you don’t need anything, just bring your valid ID and the cash to the nearest globe business center located in malls everywhere. OPTION#2 2. send us 1000 worth of GLobe load/Smart (still negotiable) since you are too lazy to go to a globe business center it’s higher bec. we don’t actually need load.. we need the money ok? If Transaction was successful: 1. We’ll return your friendster account back and never bother you again. 2. We won’t hack your account no matter if a person is willing to pay us to hack your account again. 3. As assurance of this… we’ll send your friendster information as soon as the transaction is completed. 4. You have our word. We don’t fool guys if they cooperate. If you wouldn’t pay us: 1. You won’t get your friendster back. 2. We’ll hack your new friendster accounts. we’ll make sure of that. so forget friendster if you won’t pay. 3. We’ll destroy your reputation by creating your "escort" profile and we’d be posting the links to public forums, MIRC, and your own friendster bulletin. like this 4. If we’d hack again… we’d use your name and info’s so it would be you to blame if we get busted.hahaha 5. We would use your IP addresses to hack other websites *that’s all that you have to know… for further questions just text us at 0906 490 7900 *you just have 24 hours void.if.null legions of the lord_voldemort
….. shocking.. yes, im shocked and got scared at first but, what the heck, its just a friendster account.. eniwei, for everyone reading this, take care of your account.. you dont want any stupid hackers to mess with your account.. peace out..
